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There was a time when this question was not a major issue, the gender roles were clearer. Husbands were the bread-winners, while the wives stayed home to keep the house and raise the children. With the ever-increasing pressure of feminism, the lines have become blurred and the question of who should be the head of the home has become a more thorny debate. The result is that any hint of the Biblical model of the husband being the head of the home, could be viewed with some suspicion by women, as a male contrived conspiracy to put the women ‘in their place’.

Against this backdrop, Paul’s statement in Ephesians is very clear:

Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body.” (Eph 5:22–23)

I have been surprised, given the current pressure on women to assert themselves, to hear from most of the wives at numerous Marriage Seminars, that they preferred their husbands to take the lead and be the head of the home. If there were any complaints about this subject, the majority of the wives wished their husbands would play more of a leading role and take on greater family responsibility.

Taking a closer look at this subject I think there are two important questions that need to be answered.

  1. Is the subservient position of the wife a form of punishment resulting from the Fall?
  2. Does submission suggest inferiority in any respect?

To answer the first question let us take a closer look at God’s pronouncement to the woman after she had sinned. “To the woman He said: “I will greatly multiply your sorrow and your conception; In pain you shall bring forth children; Your desire shall be for your husband, And he shall rule over you.”(Ge 3:16). Notice that God did not curse the woman, but rather, He explained the consequences of her actions, because both she and Adam had allowed the devil to become the third person in their marriage union. It was no longer the earthly ‘Trinity’ of God, the man and the woman, but it had become Satan, the man and the woman. Their offspring would not be God’s children spreading His attributes across the earth, but rather their offspring would be a reflection of ‘their father the devil’. For more detail on this point have a look at Part 2. In this respect her conception would produce children, who would do the deeds of their spiritual father the devil, bringing sorrow to her and her husband. Her conception would also be multiplied. Although speculative, there is some hint that if man had not fallen into sin, God would have played an active role in opening the womb of women at the appropriate time and producing children that would fit into His great purpose. Consider Sarah, Rebekah, Rachael, Manoah’s wife and Elizabeth in this regard. They were all barren, but when the Lord chose to open their wombs, they produced important children. It seems that one of the consequences of Eve’s sin was that conceptions would be multiplied and they would be indiscriminate.

Regarding the second part of verse 16 “Your desire shall be for your husband, And he shall rule over you”, in the ESV there is a note saying that ‘for’ could also be translated: ‘against’. The verse would then read: “Your desire shall be against your husband.. “. This second translation is supported by the fact that the same author (Moses) uses very similar language in chapter 4, where his meaning is a lot clearer. “If you do well, will you not be accepted? And if you do not do well, sin lies at the door. And its desire is for you, but you should rule over it.” (Ge 4:7) In this verse it is clear that sin has a desire to pressurize Cain to go its way, but Cain would need to exert his will and try to dominate it. It is this same idea presented in verse 16 regarding the Husband/wife relationship. She would try to pressurize him to go her way and he would have to dominate her (in an un-Christlike way) to exert his will.

In other words, in the woman’s primary function as child-bearer, she would have pain and sorrow and in her most intimate relationship, there would be a power-struggle and strife.

To answer the second question we must note that God made mankind in His own image, “male and female made He them”, which clearly tells us that women are as much in the image of God as are men. If we look at the Godhead, we find that each person of the Trinity is equally God. Jesus, “who, being in the form of God, did not consider it robbery to be equal with God,” (Php 2:6) nevertheless He was subservient to His Father. The Father sent the Son and the Father also sent the Holy Spirit, the Father clearly is the authority in the Godhead. Therefore we could say that the Godhood of each person in the Trinity is equal, but their roles are different. Neither the Father nor the Holy Spirit died on the cross, it was only Jesus because their roles are different. Similarly we can say that in their personhood, men and women are equal, but in their roles, they differ.

It is also important to note that God made Adam first and then He made the woman to be Adam’s Helper, not the other way around and this was before the Fall. When someone comes alongside to help; the responsibility for the task still remains with the person being helped. Therefore Adam remained accountable, even though his helper had misled him. God called for Adam first to give account for his actions. In the New Testament we are told that the Holy Spirit has been sent to be our Helper. He does not take over our responsibilities, but He helps us to fulfil God’s requirement of us. Even though the Holy Spirit is our Helper, He remains God and therefore far superior to us.

We can conclude from this that women are equal to men and may even be superior in some respects, but their role is different to the man’s role.

Equality of men and women on a spiritual level is spelled out in this verse: “There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” (Ga 3:28)

God’s order illustrating the differing roles is spelled out in this verse: “But I want you to know that the head of every man is Christ, the head of woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.” (1 Co 11:3)

Husbands need to take their responsibility as head of their homes, valuing their wives as spiritual equals and appreciating them as their God-given helper.

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To follow fully what I am presenting in Part 2, you may wish to get the background from Part 1.

The devil was very quick to evaluate the creation and seems to have understood the enormous potential that God had provided for Himself, to express His thoughts, desires and will through mankind, having made them in His own image. If man had not fallen, every child born would have been another unique expression of the character traits of God Himself (not His divinity, but His nature). The whole earth would have been populated with people each bearing a unique expression of God’s character and corporately as mankind, they would have filled the earth with the glory of the Lord; His love, His wisdom, His creative genius.

The devil however, saw the gap and took on the form of an animal, made his approach to the woman, knowing full well that Adam was the head of this union, having been made first ( a point that Paul used to confirm this 1 Tim. 2:13) and thereby reversed God’s order. He then disguised his approach to the woman with a subtle question, followed by a cleverly wrapped part truth, part lie. By his craftiness he effectively hijacked this God-representing union and displaced God to become the spiritual entity in the earthly “trinity”. You may wonder how I can make this statement with such certainty. Are we just speculating here? I do believe the Biblical evidence is conclusive.

  • When God cursed the serpent, He spoke about the devil’s ‘offspring’ (Gen. 3:15) God was referring here to all of mankind. (the offspring of the woman, that God mentions in this verse is a reference to the birth of Jesus)
  • When Jesus confronted the Jews who were circumcised children of Abraham, He said “you are of your father the devil” (John 8:44)
  • The first child born to Adam and Eve killed his brother (Gen 4:8) Cain showed the characteristics of the devil, who had become his ‘spiritual’ father. Jesus said that the devil was a murderer from the beginning. (John 8:44ff)
  • Paul tells us that when we were dead in our sins, we all followed the course of this world, following the Prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience. (Eph. 2:1-2). We were all sons and daughters of the devil’s disobedience – his offspring.
  • The whole earth has been filled with the characteristics of the devil; lies, deceit, greed, hatred, corruption, fornication, blasphemy and murder.
  • Mankind is a corporate representation of their spiritual father the devil.

When the horrific implications of this hijacking first dawn upon us, our first question may be: “Why would God allow Himself to be ‘out maneuvered’ by a created, but fallen angel? The answer may require a few volumes to be written for a full explanation. The very simple truth however, is that God foreknew that this would happen, He already had His redemption plan in place (1 Peter 1:20). God also knew that in order to have a corporate man (mankind) who would reciprocate the great love that He has for them, He would have to give them a choice; this opened the risk factor which God foreknew. The devil, despite his craftiness has actually played right into God’s hands.

Where does this leave us in our marriages? In serious trouble because unless we individually acknowledge Jesus as Lord and then actively acknowledge the Lord as Head of our marriage relationship with our thoughts and our actions, we allow the devil to continue his treacherous spiritual oversight and influence in our marriage.

By acknowledging the Lord as the Head of our marriage and seeking His guiding influence we are brought back to God’s original design for marriage; an earthly representation of the Trinity, made up of the union between Jesus, husband and wife. This is not as perfect as the original prototype because we are damaged goods, in the process of being restored by the Lord, having escaped the corruption that is in the world, through forgiveness, redemption and salvation.

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Bride and groom kissing.

With this perpetual subject so well covered by the many books and seminars available today, we may feel that any further analysis would be overkill and just another version of the ‘same old, same old’. One aspect however I feel, that has been neglected or completely missed and which deserves much closer examination, is the original purpose and blueprint for marriage. This aspect has been somewhat blurred by the fall of mankind into sin and most Biblical marriage instruction tends to deal with a mechanism to cope with the aftermath of this fall.

Let’s take a careful look at our origin

Paul in his letter to the Romans, interprets the material Universe and the whole of creation for us by telling us that, “… since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse,” (Ro 1:20) The material creation is therefore a message to give us some understanding of God’s invisible, but very evident power and His creative genius, amongst other attributes of God.

Turning our focus to the creation of man we find a whole new dimension to this aspect of creation. God intends man to bear His image and to be a representation of something of God that is deeper and more profound than what the majesty of creation can exhibit.

Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness. And let them have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over the livestock and over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.” (Ge 1:26–27)

This creation of man and woman was clearly intended to provide God with a supervisory team, who would rule with dominance over every living creature and in fact they would manage the whole earth. The question that we need to ask and for which we need an answer is; in what unique way does mankind bear the image of God? Part of the answer to this can be found in the statement that God makes, once He had formed the woman out of the man’s rib: “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” (Ge 2:24) Jesus elaborates on this verse by telling us: “So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” (Mt 19:6) They are two people but in a mysterious way are in fact one person, having become joined in marriage. This insight must light a spark in our hearts when comparing marriage with the Godhead, who are three distinct persons, but one God. Although there does seem to be a slight discrepancy with this comparison in that God is three persons in one, whereas the husband and wife are only two people united as one.

This discrepancy  however begins to fade as we see God coming into the Garden of Eden in the cool of the day for a personal visit with Adam and Eve and when suddenly the intended ‘Trinity’ is brought into focus. God forms the ‘third person’ in the union between husband and wife, so that it is not just two that become one; but God Himself, the man and the woman become a holy unit, or a representation of the Trinity on earth. The supervision of the creation (assuming the fall had not taken place) would have been executed by Adam, with the help of Eve, under God’s very close and intimate direction. The perfect vehicle to exhibit the love, cooperation, mutual care and unity of man with God ruling over the earth, doing God’s will and enjoying deep and intimate fellowship in union with their Creator.

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